Tuesday, April 04, 2006

That Ain't the Way You Make Love

First of all, I would like to apologize for not blogging as of recent. My schedule has been CRAZY, and my mind has been so crazy, that it's hard to keep it focused on one thing long enough to write about it.

Back to the topic at hand. I was listening to a friend of mine talk about a run-in he had with the boyfriend of a woman he was dealing with. He said that he called for her and her ol' man picked up. Not breaking a sweat, he stuck to the script and damn near acted like the man wasn't her boyfriend. He ended by saying that now, she and her boyfriend are fighting and that it's not his fault, because she shouldn'tve come at him like that if she had a man to begin with (he has had sex with her prior to this confrontation). He THEN went into a herangue about how she shouldn'tve expected much to come out of their relationship because he has a girlfriend and she has a boyfriend.

After hearing that, my mind just said: not right. That's not the way it should be. What is the purpose of a girlfriend/boyfriend if you gotta sneak? If you got a wandering spirit or libido, say it. Sure, it might come at the expense of that gf/bf, but at least you will be honest with the person and the confrontations are cut down drastically. Please folks, think before committing.

-B

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