When things go right, everybody wants to claim credit for it. When things go wrong, the fingers get to pointing and everybody's dropping the ball of blame. I listened to some women that were having a sex-related conversation, and one of them was discussing a rather disappointing performance by her gentleman caller. She began to talk down on him, insulting the size of his penis and saying how "this n-gga couldn't even WORK the lil' thing!!" Of course, her cohorts ate it up and giggled amongst themselves. They went on about how guys shouldn't lie on their dick size and how bad men are in bed.
This got me to thinking. Why are men the only ones who are blamed for a sub-par sexual performance? The same woman who can be dick-notized over one man's performance blames another when placed in comparison to the other man. Is it ever possible for a woman's vaginal skills to not be on point? Should SHE be held accountable as a willing participant in the sexual experience? I talked with a woman on this issue and she said that if guys didn't lie on their dick so much, it would not be so bad. Some say that once a vagina is used to engorged penile units, the smaller ones are not as pleasureable.
These excuses are bulks of bullshit. If their penis was so unsatisfactorily small, why would you WILLINGLY engage in the act anyway? If the size is such an issue, wouldn't you wanna check it out before it goes shopping in your supermarket, right? As for the other thing, I've been informed that there are only nerves in the lowr 2/3 of the vagina, so there IS such a thing as too large (contrary to what many believe). The thing about it is that an overly loose vagina is not an attractive thing, either. Lazy women are also not an attractive thing, either. Sex involves TWO people, and both people should WORK at it being an exciting event. Don't just think that because you have a vagina that you are entitled to a free ride (figuratively) while the man does all the work. Guys pay attention to things like this, too. If it weren't for the fact that their focus shifted to them getting themself off, they'd probably stop.
Call them dogs, call them useless, whatever. Men usually HAVE to work to achieve their orgasm, and with them being the predominant workers, they can (and usually do) at least make sure they do them. Now, minute men, they have no excuse. Being a minute man and having no concern for the other person is not a good deal. Now, if you're not doing anything to make it good for yourself, then I have no concern if you're not pleased with something you didn't contribute to. Notice, this is not the case all the time, and men do have some selfish, conniving ways. Just do your best to be objective and look at the WHOLE picture when doomsday comes.
-B
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The key to remember here is that ALL women think they are good sexually so most of them never take responsibility for anything that goes wrong. Many women think the vagina stands alone in it's effectiveness to please without any work needed. That's why some of them just lay there and wait for you to pop a blood vessel trying to make her happy. In the same way as I have to get myself charged up, she needs to meet me half way and do the same.
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